“I’ve heard there are troubles of more than one kind; some come from ahead, and some come from behind. But I’ve brought a big bat. I’m all ready, you see; now my troubles are going to have troubles with me!” Dr. Seuss
I don’t have a solution to your troubles. Heck, I don’t even have a solution to mine most of the time. But, I can tell you that with time and focus on a solution, it’s possible to get through them. The outcome may not always be perfect, and you may not always get your way, but sometimes the winning part of the challenge is beating trouble down just enough to put the situation behind you, so you can move forward.